April 26, 2010

  • My family, 1960-2009

    Here is a series of family photos, approximately in order. The first was taken in the Overland Park Bible Chapel, shortly before we left for Colombia in 1960.

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    I think these next two were was taken in Pasto, Colombia, not too long after we arrived.  We hadn’t adopted my brother Dan yet.

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    These include Dan. They were taken a few weeks or perhaps months after he came to us, because he looks plump and healthy. When they brought him to us, he was too weak to suck from a bottle and had to be fed with an eyedropper for a few days. 

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    Three or four years later. By this stage, we were living in the jungle, but this appears to be a visit to the mountains.

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    This one is obviously in the jungle. My two oldest sisters, Ruthy and Chris, were sent back to the US for school a year before we went on our first furlough, so they’re not in the picture.

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    We went on furlough in 1965. This was taken in Grandma’s yard in Merriam, KS. We stayed in my grandparents’ house, and they stayed with other relatives for the year.

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    In 1966 we returned to Colombia, and in 1967 moved to Medellín. We lived in this lovely house overlooking the city until 1970, when we took our second furlough.

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    On Sundays, my dad enjoyed taking us on drives up the mountain to explore the roads and towns. We had a long Land Rover, which you can see below.  We usually ate traditional Colombian food on these outings (but obviously not this time).

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    scan0013 We spent 1970-1971 in Kansas City, Missouri.

    Prayer card In 1971 we returned to Medellín, and in 1972 bought a country house in San Cristóbal, several miles from the edge of town. Dad named the place Casa Shalom. My folks lived there until they retired in 1994. These photos are from late summer 1972. Ruthy and Chris were both college students but came for a visit.

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    Probably 1973. The fireplace was part of the huge remodel of the house. My sister Martha (redhead on the left) eloped with Gilberto December of 1972 when she was 16 (just a few months after the previous photo). They’re still together.

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    This one is from my high school days, perhaps 1976.

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    The next to last day of Christmas vacation, 1976-1977. I came down with chicken pox the next day and got an extra week at home. Fortunately my niece Laura didn’t catch it. Dan had it in Lomalinda the next week. 

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    Mary Beth, Jody, Tristan in about 1983. Ruth and her kids Graham and Claire on the right.

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    Kind of a big gap; leap forward 22 years to the 2005 wedding of Ruth’s son Graham, who’s sucking a lollipop in the photo above. These are most of the grandkids. My kids are in the left middle. (The reason for the gap is that my sister threw these pictures together in a hurry, not because nothing happened during those years.)

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    Dad and his descendants, 2005. The guy left of him is Oscar, an old family friend from Medellín.

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    My siblings and me with Dad, 2005.

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    Memorial Day weekend of 2006, most of us got together in KC for a belated celebration of Dad’s birthday. Jan is in these photos. She and Dad got married in 2001.

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    Dad leading a prayer time. That’s Dan and his wife Cathy on the right, and Ruth’s husband Daniel next to him.

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    In 2007, Mary Beth and Jody celebrated their 50th birthdays and 25 years of marriage. I drove out to LA with my kids for the event.

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    In January 2009, Christine’s daughter Valerie got married in Birmingham.

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    Mary Beth and I visited Dad after his heart surgery last August. I took Elizabeth along.

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    As David said in Psalm 16,  The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance.”

     

     

Comments (29)

  • These are really wonderful. Perfect.

  • absolutely wonderful!

  • Pleasant places indeed. 

    Made me realize~ I don’t have even one family group photo from my youth~ not one.  There were only four of us~ you’d think it would have been an easy task. 

    So enjoyed this post.

  • @WildWomanOfTheWest - Thank you. There have to be photos somewhere, don’t there? But I guess there are people who don’t do that sort of thing. It’s sad. I’m sure you’re faithfully chronicling your own family’s development.

  • Tim, I smiled through this entire post.  I might consider doing this sometime, as soon as things settle around here.  You come from a beautiful, beautiful family, right from the get go!  What a loving life you’ve led and your children are fortunate to have such a legacy to cherish.  And, I think it’s ironic your name is Tim; you remind me of the actor Tim Robbins!

  • This is my second walk down Xanga memory lane today, and it was very enjoyable.  I only had one brother, and we never moved – not once.  It was interesting to watch you all grow up.

  • This was a really great post – I loved going back through your memories with you in the photos. You certainly must have had a very fulfilling childhood – your family seems so close and happy in all the photos. It’s so nice to see that. I see a lot of broken families around me, and my parents are one of the only couples I knew growing up that are still together… I have no brothers or sisters (that I know about – I’m adopted) – well, except for a brother and sister that were really only friends but became close to me… Anyway, this was such a pleasant and thought provoking post for me today. I know my Dad won’t be around forever – he might have a few years, maybe 20 years. Either way, I often forget to soak in the moments I have with him, and this is a great reminder. 5 trillion eprops on this!

  • This is an amazing series of photos. I know you not at all, but what an admirable family story! I’m sure there are difficult paths mixed in to the history,too. God Bless your family for the sacrament that has been your lives.

  • @prairiecowboy - Thanks. I am very thankful for my family and my background. God has been good through the hard times, too.

  • @christygrimes - Thank you. I do have a great family. Unfortunately we kids haven’t done as well at keeping our marriages together; mine fell apart in 2002, and my brother and a sister are going through divorces right now. But I’m very grateful for my parents’ faithfulness in spite of the stresses. / Definitely you need to enjoy your parents and closest friends while you can. / I didn’t realize you were adopted. I have two adopted little sisters, besides my brother, but they didn’t happen to show up for the events that were photographed above. I might add them in. The little sisters both came to the funeral, but my brother couldn’t make it because he was having hip replacement surgery. I haven’t uploaded funeral pictures yet.

  • @heart_beep - It would be great to learn about your family. / I just looked up Tim Robbins. I guess I do look a little like him. He’s about my age, too.

  • Great pictures..thanks for sharing the beautiful family!!

  • Family photographs are just the best. When my oldest son got married, and the entire family assembled for the formal portrait with the bride and groom, the photographer snapped several frames before the more posed shots. Those are my favorites – where we are all talking and laughing with each other.

    These pictures are wonderful. Tim, I’m glad you posted them. 

  • The “in the mountains” photo was taken in 1964, just before Chris & I flew off to Kansas for seventh grade. We had just gotten our first-ever perms, & I think new glasses, for the occasion. Then we arrived in the US to find that perms were no longer stylish–& there were many other more serious hardships that year. Dad said later that we shouldn’t have been sent to the U.S., since we were both ahead in school–we could have just stayed with the family. We missed you all so much. It was SO WONDERFUL when you arrived in late spring 1965.

  • @RuthG - Yeah, having you guys go to the US that year was a mistake, and I think Chris should have done her high school by correspondence, too, instead of living with Grandma.

  • I have been moved to watch a life in photo : your father from his youth until the time of departure towards the Kingdom ;
    You are a huge family . birth , growth ….; . Life is a mystery
    A point intrigued me . Your mother died young since your father married again Jan.
    Thanks for sharing this memorial of your father ,
    Michel

  • What a wonderful tribute to your family, and especially to your father.

  • Yes, the location of our mountain pic was Sylvia, Cauca, remember? The Guambiano indigenous group is up there. They taught us the song “Que rigotauen, namoyoso yau” that the Branks had translated for them from the song In my Father’s House. I found that tidbit out at the LML reunion in Dallas in 2009.

  • Tim, the pictures with the blue background are indeed 2006, but they are from Father’s Day at the Greek restaurant in Lenexa, KS. Dad’s belated 80th birthday was also in Kansas, but the dinner was held at Buca di Beppo in K.C., MO at the Plaza.

  • it is moving to watch your family evolve as it has… thanks for sharing (and excuse my travelling backwards through time in your posts!  I haven’t been faithful to Xanga in a while…)

  • @merriej - Cool. Thanks for looking it up. Yeah, these pics are fascinating. I wish I had more from the 80s and 90s, but my sister hadn’t gotten those scanned at the time of the funeral. I’ve ordered a laptop from Dell, so pretty soon I’ll be able to do more stuff on my own at home, and I’ll scan more old pictures.

  • this line of photos is wonderful, Tim.

  • I wish I could rec this a hundred times. Enjoyed the beautiful relationship you all have with each other and the smiles that you shared. Indeed you have ‘delightful inheritance’.

  • It was beautiful seeing your family grow older together. I loved the pictures.

  • Wow… this was a nice timeline of photos.  

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